From Virgin To Sleeping With Hundreds Of Women (My Story)

0:04 virgins pay attention if you're someone who's a virgin or you got little to no experience with women I want to tell you how I went from someone who was 18 years old depressed with no sense of identity no sense of self no women was a virgin no sexual experience to someone who slept with hundreds of women had beautiful girlfriends someone who took himself out of depression I was so depressed every day it was difficult to get out of bed it was difficult to even associate with other people or socialize or go out or do anything I took myself from that to be able to have beautiful girlfriends to sleep with a lot of different women and

0:49 to be someone who can teach it to other [Music] men [Music] now guys how was I able to go from somebody that was a virgin with no results with women to actually getting results with women did I get money did I go the money route did I go the status route did I go the power route I did

1:37 none of those things okay I went through a route that I call going directly to the [Music] supplier now imagine that you want to buy a pair of jeans the best way to buy a pair of jeans is to go to a store so you might go to a store let's say you go to a store called Levis you go into the store you talk to a sales representative and you say Hey listen these are my measurements this is the type of jeans I want this is the type of color I want and they'll pick uh a couple of pairs for you you go into the dressing room you try the pairs you pick out one and

2:23 you say hey I want this one you go to the cashier you pay 200 bucks or whatever it is you got your new pair of jeans okay so you went to the store to get the pair of jeans however those jeans in that store the price is 200 bucks the reason why they cost 200 bucks is cuz the brand put on the jeans okay and it's also because of the store and the experience in the store however instead of going to that store you can find the manufacturer of those jeans you can find the warehouse the distributor you can find a place where you can buy those same jeans in bulk by going directly to the supplier

3:09 so you can buy probably five pair of jeans for those 200 bucks that you would pay in the store if you knew the supplier so in the same way when we talk about women you have to understand that a lot of guys when they teach you of how to meet women they talk to you about getting muscles and getting money and getting power and getting status and that's the same thing as walking into a jean store and buying the jeans for 200 bucks if you get muscles you're going to get better results with women if you get money tons of money you're going to have more opportunity with women if you get status if you're owning a club or owning

3:55 a restaurant chain or you got friends who got yachts and networks and all that that kind of stuff and you're a part of that you're going to have more opportunities to meet women obviously however the fastest and best way to meet women is to focus on meeting women directly now women walk on the streets in bars in clubs they're everywhere in your environment if you just took a year or two and focus on actually walking up to those women talking to those women asking the those women out and getting better at the process you would automatically get better in a much faster way than you would if you were to spend three years

4:40 getting in shape one year getting in shape one year two years three years five years getting your money right and so the first concept that I used to get better with women was [ __ ] everything I'm going to take a shower I'm going to put on a pair of clothes and I'm going to go out into the world and I'm I'm going to talk to women directly not through a medium not through an app not through an introduction uh not you know by getting the muscles first and then talking to women I'm going to talk to women not getting the status first and then you know talking to women I'm going to talk to women directly right now now that was the first concept that I wanted to share with you in this video today but me

5:25 sharing this with you is not going to get you to talk to women directly for you to be able to talk to women directly I have to teach you how to build confidence from [Music] zero now what you need is this word you need confidence how can you become someone that's confident how can you become someone that that has zero experience zero skills uh zero results with women to becoming someone that's confident enough to talk to women to express themselves and to actually go on

6:11 dates with women and get girlfriends now all of you guys watching this video today you think that you have something to lose you are afraid of getting embarrassed afraid of making a mistake you're afraid of not doing well with women you feel feel you believe you think that you have something to lose but I'm here today to tell you in this video that you have absolutely nothing to lose when you see a beautiful woman walking down the street or you see a beautiful woman in the bar in the club somewhere out there in the world in a festival she's not in your life you don't have her so every time you talk to a woman every time you show interest in

6:58 a woman you can only win something you can only gain something okay cuz you don't have her when you go to sleep at night she's not in your bed when you wake up in the morning she's not in your bed she's not currently in your phone book she doesn't even know your name she doesn't know who you are and so by you walking up to her and talking to her now you're putting yourself on the map whether you get her or not doesn't matter UPF front and I will tell you why it doesn't matter up front Okay if you go and aim for the moon aim for the stars and you end up getting the girl you win if you shoot for the stars you

7:44 aim for the moon and you fail you don't end up getting the girl you still win you gain confidence to do it again you teach yourself hey it's okay to fail you teach yourself that not everything you're going to do in terms of women are going to succeed uh is going to succeed and that's also a part of the process now if you don't believe me if you're new to my channel you're new to my content well don't take it from me here's another person talking about the same thing there is nothing to get nervous about going and approaching a girl is a complete win-win situation there is nothing at risk and this is what guys don't seem to understand there is completely nothing at risk you are going with nothing nothing in your hands no Instagram or or snap at a girl yeah so you go to her and the worst case

8:30 scenario is her rejecting you and the solution of that is you walking away with exactly the same f as you went with apart from maybe an improved resilience more confidence to do it again I always tell the guys if you really want to be confident you have to put yourself in vulnerable situations that's when you grow up the most as a man so good oh [ __ ] totally forgot I was making a video hold on guys wonderful I was on a croissant break totally forgot I was making a video video anyway let me further hammer in the point of confidence by telling you that getting real confidence is not so much about developing new confidence it's about taking what little confidence

9:15 that you have and stretching it and for that I want to tell you about the story where I got my first job that job was a sales job okay and I remember telling myself I'm going to do whatever it takes to get this job cuz I needed the money I wanted to move out of my mom's house get my own place I wanted to make money and I remember walking up to that interview and telling myself I may not be the most confident person I may not have any credentials I may not have anything going for me in the job market but I'm going to walk into that interview projecting like I'm the most confident [ __ ] on the Earth is going to be a front cuz I'm not the most confident [ __ ] on the Earth but I'm going

10:01 to act like it this lady that's going to interview me for the sales job she doesn't know me she's never met me I'm just going to project that I'm the king of the world and let's see what happens let's see if I get the job so I walk into the room I give her a strong handshake chest out I say Hello nice to meet you I sit down I lean back into my chair I assume a pose of confidence of relaxation I relax my shoulders no matter what questions she asked me during that interview I answered in the most confident and calm and charismatic way that I could muster throughout the interview I got many different

10:48 questions I got many difficult questions many easy questions but I made it all seem like it was all effortless and it was all easy and I was there to make money and I was hungry at the end of the interview she told me I like you congratulations you have the job uh come back Monday we're going to finish the paperwork and we get you started in our sales office here as a sales representative now I walked out of that office I exited the door went to the street and I was completely exhausted the energy and the effort that it took for me to prod project confidence and hold the frame of confidence cuz if you project confidence

11:33 to the world it's not just about projecting it you have to hold it it took a lot of energy so I was completely exhausted I was so exhausted in fact that I went to a cafe and I had to get a coffee just to pick myself up now I noticed the same thing when I started to put myself out there and I started to meet women I started to approach women in bars and clubs and on the street and I was doing the same thing I was projecting something I was not I was projecting my most confident my most charismatic self but inside I was scared shitless I didn't know if what I was doing was going to work uh I had no earlier points

12:21 of reference because I was a virgin but I decided to let's say fake it until you make it I decided to project that I'm the king I know what I'm doing and all that kind of stuff and once I started doing that again with women I realized that I was very very exhausted I was exhausted because it takes energy it takes effort to project that into the world but very quickly I realized that what was initially making me exhausted was becoming easier and easier and easier and easier and easier to do over time so whenever I used to go to bars whenever I used to go to clubs whenever I used to be on the street I used to project and then go back to being myself

13:06 and then project and then go back to being myself and then project and go back to being myself but what I was doing was I was training myself in the art of being confident think about it if you want to ride a bicycle you ride the bicycle you're going to be shaking and shaking and shaking and shaking but one day you're going to stop shaking one of my most favorite content creators his name is Hamza maybe you guys know about him he had a video where he talked about how to develop a deep voice in that video he said if you want to develop a deep voice you have to practice speaking in a deep voice you have to be like hey what's up baby blah blah blah blah blah you have to speak in

13:52 a deep voice you have to practice the art of speaking deeply if you want to develop a deep voice or over time now doesn't it not make sense the more that you practice speaking deeply more that you go into this this deep voice more that you use it you're going to get better at it it's the same thing with confidence the more that you speak confidently carry yourself confidently the better you're going to be at doing it so it starts off with you holding what little confidence you have and exercising it and then you're going to get tired a lot of guys who go to nightclubs I teach them how to go out I teach them how to meet women I take them to nightclubs they get tired they'll

14:38 tell me wow I'm so sleepy I'm so sleepy I'm so tired it's cuz you're exercising a different part of yourself that you're not really exercising normally when you go to school normally when you go to work you go oh hello how's it going ah hey classmates hey workmates uh you speak normally regularly you don't try so much but but whenever you meet a new woman whenever you put yourself out there it's about in the beginning it's about trying it's about putting in effort eventually it will no longer take effort to be confident to be charismatic cuz you practice it so much so after two to three months of me going out and meeting women and practicing being confident I would just be confident without thinking

15:25 it wouldn't take any effort that which took effort prior no longer took effort it no longer made me tired and it also came to me naturally the only way to get confident is to practice confidence you're never going to hear this anywhere else you have to practice being confident and it's not faking it until you're making it you're just practicing being confident now I saved the most important and the best part of this video for the end of the video okay listen up guys where you practice is probably one of the most

16:11 important things that you can do for yourself when you're going out and you're meeting women I decided very early on to not [ __ ] where I ate and so when I started to go out and meet women that was the last year in college for me that's when I decided hey I'm going to change my life I'm gonna go out I'm gonna meet women and what I did was I didn't hit on I didn't flirt and I didn't approach any women in my class or in my college campus so I came to school and I just did school stuff and as soon as the school stuff ended I got the [ __ ] out of there fast as possible and I went into the city center and I started to

16:58 approach approach women I went to bars okay cuz in my country where I was born uh in Sweden you can go to bars when you're 18 I went to bars I went to clubs I went to different places where women were where women were I didn't know them okay women that I didn't know personally women that were complete strangers and so it didn't matter where I whether I failed or not because I wouldn't see them again now I became a kind of enigma at school because in school in college uh people would invite me to parties they would invite me to places and I would always say hey I'm busy I got plans I got somewhere else I need to go and people were always wondering like

17:45 where is this guy going like as soon as school ended I would always leave immediately to go into the city center to hang out with other guys who were on the same journey to go to bars to go to clubs and to practice speaking to practice practice exercising my confidence to practice asking women out grabbing their numbers and going on dates and all that kind of stuff and so I made that distinction very early okay I decided I'm going to be a mysterious guy I'm not going to tell people what I'm doing okay at school at work and all that kind of stuff I'm not going to tell anybody okay I'm going to go and I'm going to put myself out there in a safe environment when you're around strangers it's safe you can mess up and you're never going to see them again okay it's kind of like going in into a

18:32 church and you know how in churches uh you sit in a booth and you go uh forgive me Father I have sinned and the person can't really see you and you confess all your sins and then you leave okay and and so it's kind of like you get to confess you get to be yourself without the consequences okay same thing when I finished College I got into the workplace again for me the first job that I had was a sales job and so again I went I put in my hours in work as soon as work ended I went out to meet girls and I didn't HTE on girls I didn't flirt with girls at work or around work I kept being a normal chill guy at work who did his job I focused on my job I focused on my school I focused on my career and

19:19 then around that I went to meet strangers I went to meet women that I've never met before and I put myself in an environment where if I failed well nobody knows about it nobody knew about it and if I didn't fail if I succeeded well then I got a result I got a girlfriend I got to get late I got to have fun okay so I got to take my own time of getting good around 2 years in when I had been social for 2 years gone to dates slept with women had a girlfriend like I got experience with women then I started to hit on women in my workplace I started to hit on women in Social Circle events or people would invite me places etc etc because I was

20:06 already a cool interesting guy with stories I I had experience life experience experience with women and so again I recommend guys especially if you're new on the journey or if you're a guy who's kind of like intermediate you you you're a little bit social but you're not getting the results that you want to get separate okay on one end you got your life at school at work maybe you're an architect you're an engineer like don't hit on the girls in the office don't hit on the girls in the school uh if girls and and people in your school and your office invite you to House parties and things like that events skip all those events instead get to know guys online get to know guys in communities get to know guys in forums who are like-minded who are going out

20:52 and working on their social skills and so you're hanging out with other guys your new wingmen okay you got to go out you got to get to know wingman okay you're hanging out with new wingman you go to bars you go to clubs and you guys are failing and succeeding together in this safe environment full of strangers and that's why it's safe because it's strangers they don't really know you like that and so if they think that you're a bit cringe if they think that you're a bit embarrassing well who cares you're never going to see them again there might be 800 other people in that club a th000 people in that club uh 200 people in that bar 90 people in that bar if you go to the city center to a shopping mall and you hit on a couple girls well you don't need to go back to that same shopping mall uh the next day

21:37 you can come back 2 weeks later or whatever you can always switch up your location so you meet strangers all the time and as long as you're meeting strangers you can safe you can you can uh you can fail in a safe way now that's all I wanted to say in this video today I given you my top tips on how to become more confident more charismatic more uh a better version of yourself now if you want to get deeper into confidence if you want to get deep knowledge about women how to ask them out how to approach how to flirt what to say what not to say how to build a social life of abundance then check out the link at the top of the description at

22:22 www. awaken yourin instinct. comom I have today two programs a one-on-one mentoring program that's two months long where you can learn online from the comfort of your home how to approach women okay how to talk to women how to flirt and how to get on dates I've coached hundreds of guys online and my second program that I have is where you fly in here to Barcelona and you work with me oneon-one for 4 days we go to bars we go to clubs I mic you up I take you on the street and I give you direct feedback on what what you're doing wrong and what you're doing good and how to improve with women now that's all I had to say in this video today if you like this video like the goddamn video comment down below let me know if you

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