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0:05 Society has sent you an incomplete story. A story that grips you where you become friendly, loyal. And the most dangerous thing is that you believed all these lies blindly. Ever since you gained consciousness you have been taught that youth is the shortest moment of life, that after 30 everything goes downhill and after 40 it seems as if nothing is left but all this is a lie, life does not start when you are young or when you follow all the rules or when you try to fit in. Life really begins when you realise that whatever you have created so far was just a reflection of others' expectations and
0:54 according to Kalzung this realisation comes after 40. It feels strange to hear it, right? Yes, because no one ever told you this. Because nobody taught you that the first 40 years are just a rehearsal. Preparation, burden of experiences, successes and failures. Most of which aren’t even yours in fact. For four decades you were taught what you have to become , how you have to speak, how you have to look, what box you have to fit into. You have been programmed to follow norms, to wear masks. To silence the voice inside you. But then you get close to 40 and something inside starts to break. A silent crack, a slight crack in the mask you spent your whole life creating.
1:40 Suddenly, things that once mattered now seem meaningless. Those things that used to motivate you now make you feel empty. You start questioning yourself. Is this all real? Who am I when no one is watching? How much of what I'm doing is really mine and that's the part no one tells you. This is the most important turning point in your life, The Awakening. I am saying this from the same dark psychological corner of Mind Code by Ganesha. This is your real beginning. Carl Jung explained this with great brutal clarity. In the early years of our lives, we form our identity based on the expectations of others. We become children,
2:26 students, professionals, spouses, parents. But I am unable to be myself. We adapt, wear masks , disguise ourselves. In the molds that we've been given. But when you cross halfway through life, the burden of those masks becomes unbearable. That’s when your real awakening begins, and this awakening is scary. Because your whole world till now starts falling apart. Which you believed to be true till now. It slowly begins to fade away. Because now that success, that recognition, that validation suddenly seem empty. Because the things that once pulled you in are no longer serving you. And in that dark emptiness you have only two paths. Either stick to that old story, wear the same mask and spend the next 40 years, or
3:14 throw it all away and start again. This is the bitter truth which very few people accept. If you reach the age of 40. Without questioning yourself, without realizing that perhaps whatever you have built is based on a lie. So there is only one meaning. You are still sleeping. And to be honest, most people are still sleeping today because most people don't want to watch. They love the old familiar lie more because it is safe. That is comfortable. They need the same routine every day. Even if it is fake. But those who dare to face the truth discover something extraordinary: freedom. Because when you stop thinking about
4:00 what the world wants from you, only then you start living on your own terms. Because when you understand that it is not necessary to follow a particular path just because you have been following it for years, then you get the strength to choose a new path. Because when you understand that success is not something that the world applauds and praises, but something that completes you from within, only then do you truly start living. And now comes the question that will make you uncomfortable. How much of the life you are living today is really yours? Is what you do every day a reflection of your soul or just a reflection of others' expectations? Are you living or just acting? It is easy to run away from these questions.
4:46 Just close your eyes and keep going. Don't go too deep. But a day will come when the truth will break down the door and enter inside. One day that fake burden will become so heavy that you will not be able to handle it. And when that day comes when you look around and realize that the path you are walking on was never yours. Then what will you do? This is the real key. Age 40 is not the beginning of decline. This is the beginning of a revolution. This is not the end of anything. It's time for everything to begin. That's the moment when you can break the chains, burn old scripts, leave expectations behind and write your own story. The question is, are
5:32 you ready? Carl Young called it The Individuation Process but listen to Mind Code by Gish. I call it Ribth. Now the decision is in your hands. What to do with this opportunity? This is the turning point where the awakened people and the trapped people take different paths. Because just knowing that till now you have been assuming someone else's identity. It is not enough. Just understand that you were part of a play whose script was written by someone else. It is not enough. The real question is, now that you have seen the truth, what will you do with it ? And this is where the real fight begins. When you start to strip away everything that
6:18 you're not. When you tear away the layers of expectations, validation, and superficial success, the first feeling that comes is not relief. That is emptiness. A scary unbearable emptiness. Because your whole life your identity was based on what you do and what you achieve. How do others see you? And when you leave all this behind, the most difficult question arises before you. Who are you when no one is looking? This is the reason why most people do not want to do this work. They prefer to stay in the same old false identity because at least it is familiar because the fear that comes from that emptiness is
7:05 real. It goes deep and grips you from within. But Carl Jung understood one thing very well that this emptiness is not the end. This is a new beginning. When you give up everything that you are not. When you confront the silence of your own life without any mask, without any filter , only then do you get a chance to recreate yourself. An identity that is not built on the expectations of others but on your true soul and this is where the real work begins. Because finding your true identity. It is not something that will happen overnight. This is not a sudden epiphany. It is a process, a
7:50 journey of discovery, of experiments, of mistakes and of constantly increasing understanding. But in this entire journey you will have to understand one thing deeply. This journey is a solo one. As you have heard before. From that deep dark corner of the mind code by garnish. This fight is only yours. No one can do it for you. No one will give you a manual or a formula or a straight path because your true existence is not hidden in any book or in any advice or even in any trend; it is hidden in experience, in taking steps, in taking risks, in falling and getting up again,
8:35 in the courage to make mistakes and start again. Now listen to the bitter truth, not everyone reaches this point; most people are never able to do it; they keep holding on to those old lies which give them comfort. Even if that comfort is an illusion because breaking everything and starting from scratch is scary and looking inside yourself without any distraction is extremely uncomfortable. But if you can do this, as we have said in every video on Mind Code, a person who does not touch his depth remains incomplete despite achieving anything in the outside world. If you dare to jump into that emptiness. If you can leave behind everything that is not you. And if you fearlessly explore the person you can become, you will
9:23 begin to understand the truth that Kaljung always wanted to explain. Life is not about fulfilling expectations but about exceeding them. And this is possible only when you break away every false layer within you. When you are free from everything that you are not. Only then can you move towards becoming the person you were truly born to be. And now comes the real game. Because as soon as you start to break down those layers. As you encounter that emptiness that we talked about in the first episode of Mind Code. A rude awakening occurs. The world that used to seem like your own, now seems like a stranger. Conversations that seemed important earlier now
10:08 seem useless. Those goals for which you woke up every morning. Seems like stupid now. Those fears that kept you tied down for years. Now, his grip is starting to break. It feels like a veil has been lifted from your eyes. And then one day suddenly you start seeing the truth. But this is not a beautiful truth but a naked, raw and painful truth. A world in which people are running wearing false identities in a race that has no end. And here comes the truth for which no one prepares you. As soon as you wake up you start feeling lonely because now you start seeing things that other people cannot see. Now you
10:53 begin to understand dynamics that previously escaped your notice. The hardest thing is that you now realize that most of the people around you are not on the same path you are on. Those friendships which were built only on interest slowly start fading away. Those relationships which were just to play a role. Now they start sounding hollow. Conversations that used to seem like a time pass, now seem like mere noise, and this is where people get scared. Let's take a step back because no one wants to feel alone. No one wants to accept that perhaps he spent years and decades with people with whom he never had any deep connection. But brother, this is the real test because as
11:39 soon as you become free from your false version, you also become free from those who were with you only for that fake version. This is a ruthless filter but it is necessary because until you start living according to your new authentic identity, you will not be able to attract who is truly meant for you. This is where the second phase of this journey begins, because individuation does not only mean giving up, but also recreating yourself, and this is the difference between those who just wake up and those who get lost. Some people sink into despair when they reach this point. He gets nostalgic thinking that maybe his earlier life was better when at least he fit
12:26 in that world. But some people understand a very deep thing. Now he has the opportunity to choose his life consciously. Like we say every time on Mind Code by Ganesha. Now is the time to ask yourself. What kind of life do you want to live ? Real or fake? Till now most of the things in your life were based on the expectations of others. Career, partner, lifestyle, everything is what you have been taught is right, successful, acceptable. But now for the first time you have the option to decide for yourself. And this is where the next fear comes in, the fear of making a mistake. Because when you follow the path shown by others then you can say that I was doing the same thing that everyone else was doing.
13:14 But when you choose your own path, when you start living an authentic life, then the responsibility for the mistakes is also yours. That is why many people, despite knowing the truth, are afraid to take charge of their lives. They remain trapped in that limbo. Where he is neither completely asleep nor can he muster the courage to walk. And this is where Jung's next teaching comes in. Individuation is never easy because it pits you against your deepest fears. It breaks every lie you have been associated with till now. It forces you to tear down everything old and build something new. And this is the path on which very few people walk. But in the world of Mind Code by Ganesha, we talk about that path. It is a journey of death and resurrection
14:02 and before every birth comes a darkness. But beyond that darkness lies something that most people never realize. Absolute freedom. When you take off the mask that society has stuck on your face. Something strange happens when you start living life according to your truth rather than the expectations of others. The anxiety disappears. The restlessness that always made one yearn for something, something that could never be obtained, begins to dissolve. You don't need validation anymore. The urgency to fit in, the compulsion to agree with people, the fake race to look cool, all disappear. And in place of all this comes
14:48 peace. A piece that does not depend on external achievements or approval. Rather it depends on the fact that now you are living on your own rules. This is the difference between existing and truly living, between reacting and choosing. In living as an imitation and becoming the real version of yourself. But brother now listen to one last truth which no one tells, this process never ends. There comes no point where you can say this. Now I am completely free. Because individualism is not a destination but a journey. With every new face in life you will have to break new masks. New layers will have to be peeled off. New truths have to be discovered. The only difference is that once you open your eyes, you can't go back to sleep
15:35 and that changes everything because when you understand that real life begins where you dare to be yourself, your way of looking at the world changes. Now you take decisions with clarity, not out of fear. Now you connect with people who resonate with your frequency. Not from those who just wanted to fit you into their framework. Now you live with intention and not with reaction, and this is the difference between those who wake up and those who remain stuck in the same old dream. At Mind Code by Garnish, we repeat one thing every time. The biggest question in life is not what should I do? Rather, it is who do I want to become? And once you have
16:21 genuinely asked this question, everything begins to become clear. Now the most intense part of the story begins. Because now you can't pretend you didn't hear this truth. Now you cannot ignore the knot that is rising in your stomach. Now you cannot ignore that something has changed inside. And this is the problem with the truth. Once you see it, you can't ignore it. You can try to distract yourself, get lost in the routine, and assume that everything is normal. But deep down you know something is broken now and that crack will gradually get bigger. Unless you dare to cross it. Because brother, living in ignorance is
17:07 as bad as it is, it is even worse. Do n't do anything even after waking up. But now listen carefully. You aren’t supposed to know all the answers. You don't have to be clear about everything. You just have to take the first step. The fear, the uncertainty, the feeling that a mistake is being made, is all a part of this process. And let me tell you one more thing. If you're not afraid then you're not really moving forward because growth is uncomfortable. Transformation hurts, and maybe that's why very few people get there. Most people get stuck there. I keep thinking. I don't go. He keeps looking for certainty before taking any action. But the truth is that certainty comes later. You have to walk first. So
17:55 now the real challenge is in front of you. Stop waiting. Stop looking for signs. You do n't need anyone's permission because no one is coming to save you. No one will say anything. The time has come now because this is the truth. The perfect moment never comes. There is only one real moment: when you decide that it's time to start, and that moment is right now. But understand one thing, when you start walking on the path of your truth, the world does not applaud. No one gives respect, rather questions are raised. There is criticism. People try to misdirect you because your awakening reminds them of their silence. Your change
18:42 exposes the inertia within them. But this is where your real test occurs because this path is not for the world. This is for you. So please don’t ask for approval. Don’t wait for acceptance because who are you? Only you have the right to decide this. Now the decision is in your hands. Either close this video and forget everything or take the first step towards the life that is truly yours. And if you have chosen the second path then just remember that it is never too late. No matter how many years you have spent in darkness or how long you have lived under a false identity. Only one thing matters. What will you do now? Because your life is not a pre-written script. This
19:28 is not a predetermined story. Now whatever happens next will depend on your decision. Now if you have reached here and if today's things have shaken something inside you, then write just one sentence in the comment below. It is not possible to reverse the awakening. I want to know who is really awake. Who is now ready to live for real? And if you felt some truth in this video, be sure to subscribe because this is just the beginning. At Mind Code by Ganesha, we don’t pretend. We break down from the inside so you can rebuild yourself as your true self. see you next video
